When we lack clarity of what we do want, we make decisions based in fear and/or anger.

The majority of our country just made a decision based in fear and/or anger.

So, now what?

First, we acknowledge that this is what is happening.

Recognize that it is a very human phenomenon to make decisions based in fear/anger in an attempt to protect ourselves when we lack clarity.

Second, gain clarity around what you do want.

When we do the work of clarifying who we enjoy spending our time with, what we love, when we feel the most free, where we experience a sense of peace and why we make the decisions we make based on our personal beliefs and values; we make decisions based on what we do want, not just make decisions that protect us from what we don’t want.

Third, embrace the opportunity to become more resilient.

It is your decision to let outside influences shake your world. By witnessing what we don’t want we gain clarity around what we do want. Instead of reacting to what is happening, take this time to do the work of figuring out for yourself what you want your personal life to be like. Make a conscious effort to focus on yourself and the decisions you make all day long that make you who you are. Trust me, we will love you for it.